Sorry

Sorry I have been absent lately it has been pretty gloomy around here causing me to go a little crazy :P Also, I have been making a few decisions about wingnut’s schooling and have not been motivated to do much in that department until it was settled. Also, I have been working on my dear jane quilt but I will talk more on that tomorrow. Today will be about wingnut.

After a discussion with husband and the speech therapist, I got persuaded to put him in a preschool where a speech therapist is on site to work with the kids. I have strong feelings on how my son should be educated and this decision has been hard on me. I took a tour of the preschool and it is the atypical school. There is the block corner, the art corner, the imaginary play area, the toy area, and the circle time rug.  Which in themselves is not bad but I feel to actually teach a kid something, so that when they go into school they will know more then just how to say there abc’s, more needs to be involved. I do feel that the preschool will teach him things like interacting with other kids and circle time will help with sitting still, so it will not be all bad. To make myself feel better about this decision, I am looking at it as if it is just play time with other kids and I will be teaching him at home just like I have been.

I have talked to him about preschool and am not sure if he completely understands, part of that is due to his lack of communication skills. I asked him if he wanted to go to school? He said, “ok?” I asked if he wanted to ride the bus? He said, “ok?” He said both of those ok’s with a questioning tone. Hopefully he loves it and if not I will tell by if he wants to go.

On another school note, my eleven year old brother-in-law was having trouble in school so they pulled him out to home school. The problem now is his mom works full time and his dad stays at home.  Not to be mean but just stating the facts, he is old, lazy,  heavily medicated, and does not stay on top of his schooling. Nothing gets done till my mother-in-law has her weekend off of work. Not fare to her! To help her out we decided to have him come over to our place on Wednesdays so I can make him do his homework. That poor kid is going to hate me!!! He is going to sit at that table until he is done! :) Seriously I am not joking!

I will be taking a bit of a break from my regular posts until I get my dear jane caught up, more about that tomorrow. But to share just a couple of things with you, here is wingnut doing some puzzles, tracing and cutting work.



 

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Comments

  1. Kris says:

    Sounds like it’s been a tough week of decisions, but I’m sure it will all work out in the end and I’ll be thinking of you.

  2. Anne says:

    Oh, dear . . . it is hard to be a Mom, sometimes! I will hope and pray that it will be a good school for him and he will thrive there. If not, you can always bring him back home! Just remember, he is probably more resilient than you know. It is you who it will probably be harder on since you’ve devoted so much time and care to your precious son.

    You are brave to take on your brother-in-law, but it sounds like you could really make a difference in his life.

    I hope sunshine and warmth head your way soon!

  3. Mari-Ann says:

    I too have very strong opinions on how my son is educated, so I completely understand your stress in making this tough decision. I think you are 100% right to just think of preschool as a playtime situation knowing you’ll continue to educate Wingnut in the wonderful way you have been.
    Who knew these kinds of hard decisions would have to be made so early on in their lives?! I know to most people it’s “just preschool”, but I’m with you in that I think there’s a lot more that can and should be done. We’ve decided to homeschool completely until we move back to the States (in about 5 years or so) and quite possibly we’ll continue homeschooling beyond that.
    Good on you to offer to help your brother-in-law — I’m sure he’ll appreciate in the long run, if not right away, too.

    Warmly,
    Mari-Ann
    Counting Coconuts

  4. Robin says:

    No need to apologize! It sounds like you’ve got a lot going on. I have a feeling Wingnut will love preschool. There is a lot to be said for playtime. It may not be the ideal situation, but you’ll still be able to work with him and help him learn as you have been doing too. And then he’ll be getting the best of both worlds!

  5. Livy says:

    My son was just diagnosed with a speech delay. He’s got words, and even sentences but will not tell people his name or age. Does your son do this too? He’s in a three day a week montessori pre school and has excelled verbally. I think it was a very smart move for us and I hope your son will outgrow his speech therapist needs.

    We start speech therapy soon. fingers crossed.
    Livy from Rabat

  6. finger thumb says:

    I can hear the stress as you write about making this decision, and I totally understand. My little guy is not old enough for all that, but I feel the pressure already. There is so much thought and worry and guilt and stuff that goes into every choice we make for our kids, and you just kind of pray that its the right one. But I think you’ve struck a fine balance here. And you’re right, just because he goes to preschool does not mean you won’t get to do lots of home schooling things with him as well. I applaud your ability to be flexible in the face of new information. I’m hoping to home school my son, but there are some learning disabilities in our family, so I’m going to play it by ear too.

  7. Jillian says:

    Hi–I don’t follow your blog all the time, just check in here and there. I don’t know the whole story of what you’re going thru with your son, but have you considered sign language? I have friends that have used Signing Time dvds (signingtime.com) to work with their kids. One friend has a 8 month old that is signing to her! They both learned to sign together with the ‘baby’ Signing Time dvds. And, even if you are not interested in ASL, for a smile go see the video Diaper Dance at youtube (where there are more Signing Time samples): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHwg17I2hNQ . (I’m not affiliated, just know how helpful these dvds have been.) Wishing you peace with your decisions…

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