Me and my husband have a deal to keep my sanity. When he comes home from work on certain days he takes over completely with wingnut so I can quilt, post or even just take a shower alone. This last week and a half I have not had that privilege due to him getting our server working again. Which is very important. But it made me appreciate how loving he is to understand that I need that time to be sane and a functional mom. For awhile after having wingnut, it was not pretty. It took me a year and a half to realize what I needed. I needed alone time. I am the type of person that likes to have alone time. If I don’t get it, my mental functions start breaking down. That can not happen when you have a child. They can NOT see that, do not deserve it and it will leave mental scars. So after a lot of trial and error attempts at making things work we found a schedule that works. You may have noticed I now am posting to my site regularly. This is because I have the most loving, understanding and empathetic husband. I don’t know what I would do without him. I love you hubby